Where am I going ? How did I get here?

The reason that I started to transition.....

      I had been at a job where all of my time went into it and before all of that I am a single mom. So I started to let my self go the main thing to go was my hair. Didn't take care of it at all just through it onto a ponytail and went. my hair was soooo dry and falling out of my head in clumps. still the light bulb had not come on I counted all to the weather changing to winter. Like that was something that is suppose to happen.


    My hair had gotten so bad that it was broke in the middle and there was nothing i could do. So I started to wear wigs and it only had gotten worst  to the point that there was i thought I would have had to chop it all off. So I started to do some research on how to save my strands. First thing that I came ac cross was deep conditioning now I knew that was important but i didn't know how much. i would do it every now and then when i wanted that extra bounce in my hair because it maid it really light .

  
     The second thing that had ran across was co- washing, I was like wait what! when i looked deeper into it I found that this is washing your hair with just conditioner. I was really skeptic about it no soap in my hair that gross, but I tried it out and sooner then later hair was coming back to life and I could actually manage  without 

Time went on and I didn't realize that I had started the transition. I just wanted a healthier head of hair. It hit me that my sons hair had never been chemically treated never treated with heat and I took special care of his curl. He was natural, so here I am taking this journey with my boy.